P**** sleeve

I use a p**** sleeve on my 4.5 incher over half the time we have s**. My wife seems to really like it. She never says no to me wearing it and never asks for just me. It was fun at first but now i feel like I need to use it to please her and I feel it may dissappoint her sometimes when I don't. I tried talking to her about it (feeling inadequate) and she said you cant change what you have but didnt suggest we stop using them or reassure me that I please her without it. It was my idea to start using them. I like pleasing my wife and was curious to see how important size matters to a woman. I now feel inadequate and hurt. We are the only people weve had s** with.