I am a s*****
I get turned on by spanking my wife. I mean using the whip or the cane on her. She is quite submissive and I would describe it as that she puts up with it. She hates it but loves me. Usually the bruises take 2 weeks to heal.
I try to make love without hurting her and sometimes she says do you need to hurt me.
She always ends up crying and depressed and actually I feel down afterwards too.