Please help, I desperately need advice!!!

I know this is going to sound fake, but I assure you it's 100% genuine so please consider giving me some advice if you read this, I really need help. For context: I've always been called ugly, and I wouldn't say I'm an attractive person, that's why this situation seems impossible to me. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost half a year now, I'd say I'm in love with him and everything's going well. However, last night my best friend said he's in love with me but he knows I have a partner so he's fine just being friends. Normally I would just move on but I've been confused about my feelings for him for years. I would never cheat on anyone, so I know if I want him I'll have to break up with my boyfriend, but I don't know if that's what I want either. I'm so confused I don't know what to do. I think I might actually be in love with both of them??? But I didn't even think that was possible and either way I need to make a decision soon. What should I do?

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  • If you have any doubt / question then neither guy is right. I don't see this ending well.

  • Screw them both and pick the best lover

  • I don't think that your "best friend" who confessed his love for you is really your friend. If he was your friend and thinking of you rather than himself he'd wouldn't have said a thing and just waited for when you were available. He's only professing his love now because he's insecure and doesn't want the other dude to have you. He's acting like it's fine, but if it was he would have kept his mouth shut. He's no friend.

  • If you loved your boyfriend truly you would not be confused about your best friend at the first place...
    And since you are I think maybe you should give that a try...

  • You seem very young. In time you'll figure out what to do. Don't think about it too much. In a few years, they may both be just friends. Believe it or not, you should cheat.

  • Thats right, you SHOULD cheat! all the time! because cheating is sooooooooooooo fun! And especially for girls! makes you feel super sexed up!

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