My wife & I haven't had s** in over 23 years.

She had problems & had to have a hysterectomy. At the end of the operation, she was sewn up too tightly. We didn't know immediately as the advised us to wait for a good three months before attempting s**. Even using loads of lube the most I can insert into her is my little finger (and I have small hands). Anything more and the pain is such that she almost screams.
She always used to enjoy s**, but now there's no way. i suggested she seek surgical advice, but she said that at our age, it doesn't seem worth it. We're in our seventies, now.
i haven't had an erection for around seventeen years. It's like my p**** doesn't work anymore.
We cuddle & stroke each other often, but I still miss the s**.

Mar 29

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  • My wife and I are similar, we went three decades after her surgery, she simply lost interest and while I tried, she was miserable. But other than that, she is perfect for me.. so? We went years, and I was miserable, and we came close to breaking up which neither one of us wanted.

    The solution?

    She helps me out by finding friends, and she hires massage gals that use their hands. Somehow she talked a neighbor gal that was only 22 into "helping" me, man, that one was HOT! My needs are not that frequent though, every couple of weeks.

    That one I had to use a condom, didn't mind one bit since I always did with the ones I didn't know, logical. , The wife noticed me eager over the hottie and suddenly she became willing, which was fine with me. She uses some kind of lube, which helps, and we are back to a couple of times a month. Not bad, since I am 77 and she is 68.

  • I would say it is never too late. There is only one life.

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