My rapist is marrying my ex-BF and she wants me to attend
I was raped in August of 2019 by my (at the time) best friend's boyfriend. He told her I came onto him and made him cheat on her, and when I told her the truth, she believed him. Every time I see them together it hurts because I know what he is, and I don't want her to support someone like that. We have tried to reconnect several times, but she keeps trying to force him into our get-togethers and into our conversations.
For example, whenever we're on the phone, she'll tell me he said hi and she'll ask me if I want to speak to him. She'll get upset when I tell her no and it normally leads into an argument. Well, I stopped talking to her for a solid month, and she calls me to break the big news. They are going to get married at the end of the month on the 29th, which is my birthday. Yes, she is well aware of that. She wants me to spend my birthday at her wedding and after-party.
Am I crazy for thinking that they are doing this on purpose? Apart of me thinks she still believes my rapist, and is trying to get back at me in any way she can. I don't know if she's in on this or if he's controlling her like a puppet. Either way thinking about it makes me sick to my stomach. Should I even go to their wedding? I don't want to but she's been persistent. I'm thinking about blocking her number and being done with it all.