I (female) and my partner (also female) have been together for 10 years, but havent had s** for 7.
At first s** life was normal then started drying up a bity then she told me she was asexual. I was supportive, I didnt want to force anyone to have s**. When I mentioned I still had needs she basically told me to go m*********.
I have tried being understanding, even tried just masturbating but it is not the same. I am going crazy and every time I bring it up or offer suggestions sh e makes me feel guilty and says I "don't understand her"
I do love her very much but I dont think I can handle this much longer.