I met my wife through a threesome but family doesn't know

In college my girlfriend and I at the time decided to try new things in our relationship and she wanted to explore her sexuality a bit more. I was studying Illustration at the Academy of Art University in San Francisco and she was studying MPT (Motion Picture Television) at the school. I was from a very conservative Catholic family from Missouri and she was a non-practicing Buddhist from Jiangmen, China.
We had been dating for a year when she suggested having s** with other girls together. I was open to the idea having never experienced something like that before so I was down for it. It took about 3 months until we found someone open to joining us. Our first experience was with someone we found online and it was awkward and didn't pan out too well, but we both decided to give it another try.
Her best friend (who was from Tianjin, China but was going to Cal State) was open to it and we tried again with her. The first time I met her was that night we had our threesome. She was waiting completely naked in my girlfriend's room and I entered the room undressed as well. (so the first time I met my would-be-wife we were both naked and had s** within a minute of meeting each other) It was a lot of fun and some of the best s** I ever had up to that point. We ended up having s** together for the next three months almost two to three times a week.
Over that period of time I started developing feelings for Anna (her English name) and my girlfriend was starting to become jealous. But she also started coming to the realization that she was more into s** with girls than guys.
We split up and it was almost a year before I ran into Anna again while dating another girl pursuing a threesome. The girl I was dating was a coworker of Anna's and Anna was the first person she knew was into threesomes. Anna and I laughed at the crazy coincidence of it all before having s** that night with her coworker.
We met the next day and I decided to call off my relationship with her coworker and Anna and I started dating the next day.
She was still good friends with my ex who now was 100% a lesbian engaged to another girl. Anna told me my ex learned through us that she really wasn't into guys and just wanted to f*** other women. Anna and her dated for two weeks before realizing they were better off just friends.
Two years later we got married. Our parents think we met on E Harmony, but have no clue how we met or that we have a very open sexual relationship to this day 7 years later. Early on while dating we set boundaries with each other, but both knew that we liked including others in our s** life when we could as well as exploring with others on our own (something neither of my previous partners were in to or probably capable of handling). I got a vasectomy shortly after we started dating and Anna, being the champ she is, got her equivalent procedure done two months after. Neither of us wanted kids (our parents were told that I am incapable but are unaware that we made the choice ourselves) and neither of us wanted me to get others pregnant or others get Anna pregnant. We still practice safe s**, don't get me wrong, but it gives us a measure of peace.
Through Anna I learned that I am bisexual as well and I have gotten to have a few gay experiences with another man with her and two times on my own with another guy. Threesomes and very rare foursomes don't happen as often as you'd think for us these days. We might get 2-4 in a year honestly. But we do have lots of s** with other people pretty regularly and of course with each other. A lot with each other!
It has been hard to keep how we met a secret but after all these years we've mostly gotten our "story" rehearsed pretty well. We have had a few close calls where my family got suspicious of a girl we spent a lot of time with (probably the closest we have been to a legit serious and steady poly relationship three years ago) but thankfully they have never found out.

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