Ok first off I am happily married but have always wanted to have s** with a girl. Well I've finally found somebody to share the experience with but.. She a virgin, she swears she's not gay, and she's like 9 years younger than me. She claims that she really wants to have s** with me but I'm not sure if I want to go thru with it because I want more than just s**. I'm torn. Anyone have a suggestion?