my fiance annoys the crap out of me.

I've been with my now fiance for over 5 years now, and we're getting married this July. I'm only 20 years old. I've been cheating on him for a few months. It was all perfect at first because the other guy has a girlfriend, so it was just a friends with benefits type of thing. Now he's telling me he's going to break up with her. I don't want to get married, but it's pretty much unavoidable. My fiance annoys the crap out of me, and the other guy makes me feel wanted, sexy, and smart. I don't know if I should marry my fiance or just run away with my side dish. Both ideas terrify me.

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  • Warning Against the Adulterous Woman PROVERBS 7

    1My son, keep my words
    and store up my commands within you.

    5They will keep you from the adulterous woman,
    from the wayward woman with her seductive words.
    6At the window of my house
    I looked down through the lattice.
    7I saw among the simple,
    I noticed among the young men,
    a youth who had no sense.
    8He was going down the street near her corner,
    walking along in the direction of her house
    9at twilight, as the day was fading,
    as the dark of night set in.
    10Then out came a woman to meet him,
    dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent.
    11(She is unruly and defiant,
    her feet never stay at home;
    12now in the street, now in the squares,
    at every corner she lurks.)
    13She took hold of him and kissed him
    and with a brazen face she said:
    14“Today I fulfilled my vows,
    and I have food from my fellowship offering at home.
    15So I came out to meet you;
    I looked for you and have found you!
    16I have covered my bed
    with colored linens from Egypt.
    17I have perfumed my bed
    with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.
    18Come, let’s drink deeply of love till morning;
    let’s enjoy ourselves with love!
    19My husband is not at home;
    he has gone on a long journey.
    20He took his purse filled with money
    and will not be home till full moon.”
    21With persuasive words she led him astray;
    she seduced him with her smooth talk.
    22All at once he followed her
    like an ox going to the slaughter,
    like a deera stepping into a nooseb
    23till an arrow pierces his liver,
    like a bird darting into a snare,
    little knowing it will cost him his life.
    24Now then, my sons, listen to me;
    pay attention to what I say.
    25Do not let your heart turn to her ways
    or stray into her paths.
    26Many are the victims she has brought down;
    her slain are a mighty throng.
    27Her house is a highway to the grave,
    leading down to the chambers of death

  • You need to break up with your fiancee and the boyfriend!! The finacee because you are obviously not happy with him and getting married out of pitty is the worst. My friend did it and now she has a child and probably hasn't had s** with her husband in 3 years. ALso, the boyfriend because he is a cheat. He cheated on his girlfriend and will do the same to you. There are so many men out there, look for some better ones.

  • If you don't like your finace, THEN DON'T MARRY HIM!!! After you break up then go have a fling! I HATE cheaters! PS Neither will ever work out, too many problems. PPS There is NO EXCUSE for cheating! Kill one of the relationships. Have you ever been a victim of a spouse cheating? Of course not. Stop thinking of yourself. You're fiance, even if his is annoying, is a human being, and has feelings. So does your lover's girlfriend! And your lover! You are hurting WAY more then yourself.

  • Kill it now! Unless you plan a sexless marriage.

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