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Hotwifing troubles
My wife and I have been involved in hotwifing for the last five months. For me, it's been an unmitigated disaster, especially the holidays. For her, it's been perpetual spring break. I thought that allowing her to see other men -- while I kept myself for her -- would make her feel more happy and complete, and that it would enegerize our ** life at home. And that she'd go out occasionally at night, but then always come home to me and our child after she'd finished with whoever she was with. The hotwifing site we used said to let her find her way, and to give it awhile to even out, but things aren't getting better: she's just going out more often, and staying out longer, sometimes for several days at a time, without calling or coming home. When I express my reservations to her, all I get is: "You agreed to this because you SAID you love me, and you can't back out now after we've just started it". Have any of you had experience with hotwifing? DOES it get better? Or am I just a Class-One moron for supporting her while she lives her life like she's not married (except for the fact that she's living that life on my bank account and credit card) and not a mother?
My wife turned to hot wife. All the guys at the office she worked at used her a lot , I thought she was a virgin when we married , so had to get it out of her system , she turned into the biggest ** iv ever seen , guys pulled a train on her , she come home all wore out looking like a wet rag doll , staying out till 3am , giving oral in the car in parking lots , she got caught in the back seat with a black man by the police in a shopping center parking lot , we talked about he staying out too late and her way of fixing it is to bring them home into our bed , I thought if I stand wat that it would stop , nope she liked it , she wanted me to watch , this started when she was 56 she is now 60 , it kinda stopped she will go out once in a while and do guys but comes right home , she just did a neighborhood guy at his house was gone 40 minutes , hopefully soon it will end but i doubt it she likes the attention of young guys
Why are there so many whipped spineless men in this lifestyle. u can still have ur cake and eat it too all u have to do is take of those fckin ** and put sopme fckin man pants on show her who's boss or divorce the **
Youre an idiot who deserves everything he's getting and she's just slutting around like youre not important.man up Bro, grow a pair and tell her to either get back to where you both should be in this relationship or divorce her cos bro,,she's not even worroed what u think right nopw andf thats a sure fire path to realtionship destruction.
Looks like cuck city to me. Anyone allowing the wife to engage in this kind of lifestyle is a loser and deserves what he gets.
Hot wife is passive aggressive manipulation it's not about husband foolish enough to be manipulated by a unfaithful wife. Question is answered she doesn't love you just the security marriage brings. Divorce her and find a new mom for kiddie
It sounds like there has been a communication breakdown. My wife and I have agreed at any point one us and s uncomfortable with a situation that we take a step back, talk and re-evaluate things. At no point will we allow pleasure of the flesh to interfere with our marriage.
Same here but it’s working out for us we are both sexually satisfied now , nothing like sitting in a chair at the end of the bed watching , bed shaking and squeaking as a guy pounds your wife , her moans and seeing his ** as he humpping her and her lags around him , I masterbated waiting my turn for sloppy seconds , we both happy it takes two to satisfy my wife especially when his is bigger
You can start out having an agreement with your wife, that doesn,t mean she has to or will keep the agreement! she WILL stay out later and later, maybe not coming home for several weeks. all during this time, you,re getting less and less **! it will either end in divorce court, or she will end up with one of her lovers! to anybody considering HOTWIFING, DON,T DO IT! ALL THE MEN WANT TO HAVE ** WITH A FEMALE HOTWIFE, AND HALF OR MORE OF THE FEMALES ARE WILLING TO HAVE ** WITH HER TOO! IT,S A LOSING PROPOSITION FOR THE HUSBAND! I KNOW FOR A FACT!
It’s all about the upfront agreement . My wife and I tried hotwifing but I made it clearer that it would be something I’d have to be a part of and witness . I told her we’d pick someone together and she would have the final say on who because it’s her body . We agreed that I could videotape it but not be in the room because that would throw the mood off and she would be uptight . After a couple of years of building up to an actual session , it finally happened ! She said she hated it and would never do it again and it was disgusting , but in the video she was moaning and wet and couldn’t keep her eyes off of his BBC. What I’ve realized is that most woman would love hotwifing but not if the husband is involved and especially witnesses each session . If my wife had your wife’s set up , where she could go out whenever and with whoever , she would ** love it ! She would be no different from your wife buddy . Most wives couldn’t do my set up which is keep me involved on a regular always ! See my wife cheated on me years back and was perfectly fine with hooking up with her lover on multiple occasions and she never felt disgusted in herself or show any remorse . Why? Because it was in secret and she had all the power and control over her affairs ! Hotwifing was a way of giving her another man to feel but the only catch was that she’d have to include me everytime and that disgust her ! If I told her to just go do it without me , she’d never be home I bet . So my advice is to go to your wife and tell her you made a mistake and her going out without you is too much to take and you are unable to do it anymore . Tell her you want hotwifing to continue but you both need to do it together . Probably like my wife , this will disgust her . What they want us to have hubby at home and security of a marriage but be able to ** anyone they want . Sorry bro !
So true I went threw the same , we talked about three some mfm and she said no that’s cheating when all along she was ** around , I knew and she knew I knew it , I told her your cheating she denied it , I saw on her phone when she was asleep , she was being a full on ** , she was doing guys daily sometimes more then one , sometimes she gave just oral sometimes motel ** , I said if you won’t do a three some or let me watch then let me do hidden cameras , no she said nothing going on , I even met a guy she was doing and he tried talking to her with no luck , I think they want the husbands respect but want guys to disrespect them and use them as whores , my wife still screws around about once every two weeks
You ate a fool.
I am a cuckold who wants to get out of the lifestyle. Are there any resources online that can provide advice? (We've tried to get professional help).
Same way you got into it , back off a little at a time , I’m in hot wifing but backing out little at a time , she only goes out once every two weeks now , before it was almost every day , only one guy doing her now and soon it will be once a month then just me
Sorry but I would guess a class one moron. Fell into the same trap but only had one experience and I’m putting a stop to it.
Your wife now has a Very hot full time relationship With someone else's big **. And based upon what you have said your paying for it!!!!!!! Both of you need to give up the life or you give up her. Before she drains you for every penny you got . and her new main man Lives happily ever after with your money.... Wake up man You're now classified as an embarrassment of men. We're getting suckered like this.
She is draining her new lover's ** and her husband's bank account. Must be nice
Yup you’re a world class moron
Sounds like it turned to a cuckold relationship
Be a ** man and ** her in the ** and then leave the **, your better off alone than with a ** who begs for other ** and then blames you for it.