Was my ex a selfish lover?
Hi folks. I've just broken up with my ex, we were together for five years and she's both the only lover, and only girlfriend, I've ever had.
I've been talking to a few people about our former s** life and they seem to think it's odd. So when we'd have s** it was almost always missionary (her favourite) and she'd almost always o***** (yes, I am proud of that!).
On the other hand I (I'm a guy BTW) would very rarely o***** - not because I can't, but because she didn't want to stay on the pill hence I couldn't finish in her, and with a condom on I get very little feeling so there isn't much point. She also, in five years, NEVER finished me off with her hands or mouth. At all. Plus since I'd then have to play with myself ot ge tot o***** she'd get annoyed with me because she wanted post-o***** cuddles.
This post isn't to criticise her, I'm honestly looking for opinions. Like I said she's the only lover I've ever had - is this normal?