I am 24 years old, and a month ago I

I am 24 years old, and a month ago I walked in on my best friend having s** with my boyfriend. Needless to say, I freaked out, and screamed at both of them for quite a while. My boyfriend broke up with me right after, and my best friend is now ignoring me, saying that I was extremely rude. How was I tell her I'm sorry, and win our friendship back?

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  • Don't you dare apologize you idiot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • that wasnt' rude @ all BEAT HER ASS!

  • Amen. She wasn't a true friend, if she were she would realise how much she hurt you, instead of trying to make YOU into the bad person by calling you "rude". Let her ass go.
    at age 24 i would think you would be a litte smarter than this. If you caught them having s**, chances are that this wasn't the first time it happened. Believe me, if it would have been me, they would have both gotten their a**** beat. They should be greatful that they aren't all black and blue. And I agree with the above commenter about your BF dumping you. Damn girl, have a little R-E-S-P-E-C-T. You deserve better friends, and a MUCH better boyfriend. Don't settle
    Are you that desperate for a friend? Think about what she did and how long she and your ex-boyfriend were doing it. She's sneaky and can't be trusted. Don't waste your time on either one of them. They aren't worth it.
    Are you kidding? She was having s** with your boyfriend. You shouldn't want a friend who would do that to you. HYou should get rid of them both.
    Ummm, I would say that yoyu need to get your self esteem up! He broke up with you? Are you f****** crazy? If I were you,l P would have probably killed them both right there. You are a sad excuse for a woman if you are worried about what YOU did wrong! Jesus christ girl, I don't even feel sorry for you, and I can see why he cheated!

  • Ummm, I would say that you need to get your self esteem up! He broke up with you? Are you f****** crazy? If I were you, I would have probably killed them both right there. You are a sad excuse for a woman if you are worried about what YOU did wrong! Jesus christ girl, I don't even feel sorry for you, and I can see why he cheated!

  • Do you have ny dignity left? Come on how could u want to be friends with a girl like that. If my best friend did that to me, I would stick her head in a toilet full of s***!

  • Are you kidding? She was having s** with your boyfriend. You shouldn't want a friend who would do that to you. You should get rid of them both.

  • There are no accidents.

  • I disagree. Most people don't understand your needs. Offer to suck off your boyfriend with her and compete to see who gives the best head. Your boyfriend will love you both.

  • Are you that desperate for a friend? Think about what she did and how long she and your ex boyfriend were doing it. She's sneaky and can't be trusted. Don't waste your time on either one of them. They aren't worth it.

  • win her back?

    tell that stupid c*** she was the rude one for having s** with your boyfriend.

    in the end you're better off with out the two of them.

  • at age 24 I would think you would be a little smarter than this. If you caught them having s**, chances are that this wasn't the first time it happened. Believe me, if it would have been me, they would have both gotten their a**** beat. They should be greatful that they aren't all black and blue. And I agree with the above commenter about your BF dumping you.

    Damn girl, have a little R-E-S-P-E-C-T. You deserve better friends, and a MUCH better boyfriend.

    Don't settle

  • you are an idiot for worrying about this. And your boyfriend broke up with YOU?? What the h***. You should have dumped him when you caught him with his p**** inside your best friend! Damn girl, have a little self respect. Neither of these people are worth your time.

  • B****, are you crazy? You want her back as a friend? You have the self-esteem of a burn victim.

  • luk gurl dont go back 2 both of them else picture this ur best frnd nd boy friend havin s** at wil wit or witout ur consent. she wunt nid 2 hide it from u any more. let d b**** go, she aint ur friend at all. maybe she hooked up wit u at first bcuz of ur boyfriend not even dat she likes u. s**** her!!!

  • You're much better off without either one of them.

  • How does she think she can say that YOU were extremely rude? She's a b****, she's not worth it.

  • I don't understand your feeling guilty about this situation. I mean from the way I see it you got the best end of the deal. You got rid of a cheating boyfriend and a bestfriend who obviously didn't feel the same way about you or she wouldn't have went there. Fake people come and go as you see but the real true boyfriend and bestfriend(which you will find) will not be so rude to you. Don't listen to your former bestfriend. She is just trying to justify her sleeping with your boyfriend by saying you were rude and turning the tables on you to make it seem like you were in the wrong. Move on and be happy

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  • Amen. She wasn't a true friend, if she were she would realise how much she hurt you, instead of trying to make YOU into the bad person by calling you "rude". Let her ass go.

  • Why would you want to, she betrayed you, did she not!!

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