I love my wife, find her very **, and

This fantasy is quite common, maybe you should tell your wife and she could be interested to make your fantasy come true. I used to have the same fantasy and I told my wife while we were having ** and she admitted she was turned on by the idea of me watching her having **. I spoke to a friend of mine and he was very keen to have ** with her. I told her, she agreed so I watched as they got naked, I could see she was very turned on and so was I. She orgasmed several times before he came inside her, I was so aroused I just had to have ** with her as soon as he finished. We spoke about it later and she said she loved it and wanted to do it again and so did I. So we now do this and it has made our ** lives so much better.

I think you need to let her in on your fantasy and let her know that you don’t want her to do it so you can be with another woman. Then sit back and enjoy the show, then get yourself some sloppy seconds you’ll love the way it feels

Dude can i ** your wife and ** in her ** ?

I wrote the original post. My biggest reason is that I love to watch my wife enjoy herself. I don't want to direct... just to have her enjoy herself. If I play amateur shrink, I can say that prior to meeting my wife, I was very experienced with women. My wife had been with two men, one of which she planned to marry. So, I love the idea that she could be a little slutty, although in reality, I don't want to really do this.

Its a personal ** movie and the guy is the director? I think its about power perhaps. You get to instruct what happens? (Guessing here)

Uh I'm sooo glad you guys are reasonable about this but can some please explain to me what exactly turns them on about seeing their spouse or partner have ** with some one else.

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I am the voice of experence. DON'T DO IT.

I agree wholeheartedly. I share your fantasy, but the reality would probably kill me.

Eactly. It's okay to fantasize, but don't act on those fantasies - infidleity is like a poison. Once it seeps into a relationship's "system," it starts slowly dying.

There's nothing wrong with that kind of fantasy - just because you are turned on by the thought of it, it doesnt mean you need to act on it.