I wish I had been born to sane parents

I wish I had been born to sane parents. the one's that gave a crap about RAISING kids not just slapping each other around. If my mom had put as much energy into raising my sister and I as she did into having boyfriends and getting married....I wonder where we both could have been right now. I've made so may bad mistakes trying to find my way through life because I just wasn't important enough to warrant any parental guidance. I resent it. I couldn't imagine bringing my sons into this world and then saying 'Ok- find your own way- I have to go find a man!' It's bullshit. You shouldn't have kids if you have no intention of giving them any kind of lifeskills to protect themselves with. Obviously neither of my parents had any to give. I wish they had never mated.

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  • a big AMEN on this one. my parents were too young to have a child. now I get to suffer and in addition I have NO FAMILY SUPPORT as an adult. whatever. I am over it. but if you are a child yourself, you have no fng business having kids until you have a path in life or are mature enough and financially responsible. i am with someone with two kids and I cannot see myself EVER not taking their calls or helping them advice wise or monetarily.

    my parents suck. all my aunts raised normal fng kids and they have always had / still have normal relationships.

    i think my pops avoids me because i represent the past and possibly his failures to an extent. thank God I have a strong sense of self. otherwise, I would be toast!

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