I never have had an **
I am married and have been with my husband for nearly 20 years. He always has been a premature ejaculator. ** can be over in 1-2 minutes. EVERY time.
I get all turned on by great foreplay and get the need to have hot raunchy **. But he is done so quickly. Yesterday I went and bought a **. One that looks pretty cool. It has a huge ** head, and has beads that rotate. It has a ** tickler. And the size of this thing is OMG. On my way home from the shop, I really wanted to pull over and rip it out of the box. I really need to ** so bad.
I waited until last night when I was alone, and had a play with all the settings for about an hour. I was so excited thinking I was finally going to reach **. But no.
What can I do? Or is there something wrong with me? Are some people just not able to **? I have heard that some women actually can squirt during an **, and I really want that!
Just to think that you want an ** is good, i think you need practice your mind more, to find what turns you on more, don´t leave using the ** but try to imagine things, the ** begins into the head....good luck
My girlfriend squirts almost every time she ** and that happens several times when we have ** to the point where we have to used pads in order not to ruin our bed. Sometimes she can squirt by just looking at me or thinking about **. I strongly believe that the brain is the most powerful sexual organ.
The main issue is that you're not in tune with your own body. If you can't reach ** by yourself you won't with your partner.
I would say for both you and your husband go see a ** therapist, separately, or together. I think both are mental issues (not saying you're mentally ill) but i think it'd be highly beneficial