Now what does it mean when a man tells

Now what does it mean when a man tells you he does not know what he wants. We have been dated and I am always afraid and guarded. He treats me well we have not yet had s** but have made out an got real hot and steamy. I asked him what do you want from me. He say's, I don't know, should I run?

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  • ^ Be original and don't use movie lines.

  • HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!

  • ^how old are you that you cannot spell?

  • just wak away.how old is he that he doe'nteven knw what he wants?

  • Personally, when I met my wife I really didn't know what I wanted to do in life. We dated for 7 years before we got married. Part of that long span was because of us both going to different universities. For you to split soo fast is being unfair to yourself and him.

    Could you phrase the questions differently? Thats a very generic question. Want material, want support, want s**, want to be held, want to communicate? Command of communication isn't a skill that all guys have. He could have been befuddled because he didn't have a pat answer like you were looking for.

    First poster has it right.

  • ^ Well, he is many years older than me. I my late 20's him early 40's. But it does feel like we are back i High School :)I'm sorry about that girl you lost. I hope you come across another who treats you well.

  • You're welcome. That guy sounds a lot like me in high school. I lost a very sweet girl to someone else because I was too timid to articulate my feelings. (sigh)

  • ^thanks, I was about to split. But you have helped me and I will hang in there for a while longer.

  • He's too polite to put all of his desires into words, and afraid that it will sound crass and you'll reject him.

    Don't run. Give it time. Be a little more open and helpful. Suggestive even.

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