I want my wife to take a lover....am I just sick ?

You are just like many men. You want your wife to take a lover or more. You are not looking to separate. You simply enjoy her sexuality and want to share it. Encourage her and her friend.

You'll be on your own soon

My wife made me her cuckold. I bent the knee for family and other reasons. I don't like it but I have to swallow my pride everyday. She says learning humility is good for me. She and her lover now run this house and me and the family. It's difficult being submissive to another man, but I have been put in a position where I have no choice.

I have to take responsibility for my choices; I married her and maybe I shouldn't have; maybe I should have divorced but I didn't. Their power has grown and gone to their heads. You may not like having your wife banged by another man. You may not be able to contain the situation. Once she has you by the ** she will squeeze. The other man will too.

Yes, that does happen sometimes. You choose to stay in your marriage. We have choices. Becoming a cuckold does not mean your wife will loose respect and love for you, but it does happen. In my case I feel very loved and respected by my Hot-Wife, I enjoy her promiscuous behavior and help her whenever I can.

Go for it. tell her what you want, you may have to tell the man also.

Maybe, but I would feel the same. So, I recommend you tell your wife you see how they flirt with each other and encouraging it. Make sure she knows she should use your marriage bed. I would tell her I want watch. Set up a motion activated camera system in your bedroom and let the games began. Just know once something like this begins, there is no turning back. Your wife's ** life will become very spicy. She as your hot-wife will never allow you to have ** with another woman and may in time take many lovers if you encourage her correctly. GOOD LUCK, I hope it works out for you.

I have tried to get her to be my hot wife but that ain't going to happen. Her interactions with the yard man ( who has become our friend actually ) are giving me hope.....at least for a beginning. I hope, I hope, I hope.
Have you had simular situations ?

Yes, I did have something similar happen. It took a little time, but she came around, and wow when it did, her self-confidence skyrocketed, and knowing I loved it she eventually took several lovers. This was several years ago and she still maintains one to four lovers at any given time. Sometimes you have to reassure her that you want it and will not be jealous or react badly. You may have to talk with your yard man also. Let him know you want him to seduce your wife openly if possible. Just know when it happens, your wife will not tolerate you seeing other women, she may encourage you to be with other men.

Thanks for the reply/advise.
The first day he ever did any work for us I caught him looking at her ** in a tight t shirt.....when he looked at me with a guilty look I made the "lift the big ** with my hands" and he grinned and said yes, yes, yes. Now he looks anytime he can knowing that I approve. We have gotten to the point that it is up to her to make the decision to go for it.

Hi again. encourage him to keep flirting and get a little touchy/feelie with her, probably when your not watching. I should tell you my wife is not a beauty-queen, she is attractive and my beauty-queen. Once this started her confidence changed. She realized what I was telling her was true she was attractive to other men. A side note about my sexuality. She said fair is fair I encouraged her, she encouraged me, I am now a happily very bisexual man.