The V Card
I have a history of intimacy issues, but finally lost my virginity about a month ago. It only happened once, but was outside of a relationship and with a friend that I trust a great deal. I don't regret it at all, but now I have another problem. A mutual friend of the boy's and mine has had feelings for me for a while. I told him I was not interested, but he does not know about my intimate encounter. We are very close and now I feel like I am keeping a huge secret from him. But I still don't know if I should tell him. I'm just looking for some objective remarks. What would you want if you were in his shoes? Would you want to know sooner or later? Or ever?