The V Card

I have a history of intimacy issues, but finally lost my virginity about a month ago. It only happened once, but was outside of a relationship and with a friend that I trust a great deal. I don't regret it at all, but now I have another problem. A mutual friend of the boy's and mine has had feelings for me for a while. I told him I was not interested, but he does not know about my intimate encounter. We are very close and now I feel like I am keeping a huge secret from him. But I still don't know if I should tell him. I'm just looking for some objective remarks. What would you want if you were in his shoes? Would you want to know sooner or later? Or ever?

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  • Just give HIM some of that good p**** stop being prude ma y.o.l.o ...the least u can do in life is have some amazing s** ...oh a and get you some black D***?? not c*** mq??????

  • The right thing to do is tell him. Say you became serious and he went 8months without knowing. This actually happened to me. I lost my virginity to my best friend and then a few years later dated his best friend for a year! I had to tell him. He was fine with it. He understood that I trusted him. However, this led to bring more curious about sexual encounters with men and then you trust any man you have interest for. Guess what, now I have herpes! You keep that in mind princess

  • Since he's a friend of the guy you had s** with, I just wouldn't mention it.
    Girls who are not virgins don't go around proclaiming their status to anybody and boys with any brains, don't ask.
    Actually, it's none of his business unless he plans on marrying you and by then he'll know anyway.
    Say nothing.

  • He knows, but its a big secret? I'm missing something.

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