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** to get pregnant?
My wonderful and loving man is infertile but I am able to have children. We don't have extra thousands of dollars to spend on treatments or adoption. He has a friend who finds me very attractive and willing to have a ** with us to try and get me pregnant. I need advice, I am not sure if I should go this way or not. I have never had a ** before.
Uuum you don't have to ** in order to get his sperm inside you.
Don't do it. So many things are going to be wrong in the future. He'll tell you to marry the other guy every time you guys fight.
How much does it cost just to go to a sperm bank and make a withdrawal? THAT would be a better idea than KNOWING the biological father of the baby. You never know- he might have a change of heart and decide HE wants to be the father. After all it would be HIS baby too. I dunno. If you're seriously thinking of going through with this, I'd speak to a lawyer and see if there is any way you can have a contract drawn up to prevent the bio-dad from any parental claim to the child. Also- you don't really have to have ** with him. Just get a 'donation' and a turkey baster or something.
I think that you need to think about the legal aspect and the fact that having a second man involved could seriously affect your relationship (forever) with your husband and have serious potential legal ramifications. Also, you say that you know that he is infertile and that you are fertile, but don't have the money for treatments - how do you know that are correct as to which one of you is infertile? Did you have testing done to find that out? Maybe it's not infertility but stress around wanting to have a baby - I've heard so many stories around stress leading to "infertility" or couples being declared medically "infertile" adopting and then later having a natuaral born child. In the end, you should consider adoption or treatment in another country to solve this problem... otherwise it sounds like you/your husband would be simply playing out someone's sexual fantasy.
I seriously think that you should do a **. That way you won't be tied in any way later to a guy that just might want to have something to do with the kid.
Definitely have a **. It will be a one in a lifetime experience. Make sure you get guys with huge ** and make it a great night that way nobody knows who's child it is
That would be a bad situation in a long run. This guy isn't going to just sit back and let another man raise his kid.. he may just be in it for the **. If you can be sure that this guy is just trying to help you out, write up a contract and go for it.