i know and thats what im scared of. last time it ended with me losing both of them. this time im not prepared to lose any of them, i just dont know how i can make it work :(
Nah, you can be friends. It really is possible. But by posing the question here you probably have feelings for the guy beyond friendship. That's where things start getting messy.
Yes, it is wrong. If your b/f believes it is wrong, then it is. For men there is no such thing as a "good friendship" between a woman and a man, and eventually you will end up in bed with one of them. Or more than one, because this is what they are after...
the thing is im starting to swing more and more your way, you cant be good friends with a boy without anything more. have to find a way round it. its not happening a second time.
i know and thats what im scared of. last time it ended with me losing both of them. this time im not prepared to lose any of them, i just dont know how i can make it work :(
Nah, you can be friends. It really is possible. But by posing the question here you probably have feelings for the guy beyond friendship. That's where things start getting messy.
Yes, it is wrong. If your b/f believes it is wrong, then it is. For men there is no such thing as a "good friendship" between a woman and a man, and eventually you will end up in bed with one of them. Or more than one, because this is what they are after...
the thing is im starting to swing more and more your way, you cant be good friends with a boy without anything more. have to find a way round it. its not happening a second time.