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One of my friends' boyfriends has
One of my friends' boyfriends has depression problems. I used to help him and talk to him but he is really annoying now, I wish he'd just get through it or come to a conclusion fast, I am sick of it!
I feel this way about my OWN boyfriend. He complains all the time about how depressed he is because he is not where he wants to be in life, yet he sits on his **, and does NOTHING to try and better his life.
Maybe he just needs some really good ** can you give it to him?
he needs to get help, you can't do it for him. it's good to be a friend, but #2 is right, setting boundaries is a very self healthy thing to do.
it's okay to set boundaries. tell him you care about him but don't have the energy to support him that way. he might be disappointed or mad--but it's your life!! don't be taken advantage of.
your a great friend!!!