Okay so I'm 17 years old, and I'm a virgin. I never really thought a lot about the whole when do lose my virginity until now. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. Everyone at school already assums were having s** according to them No way can a teenage couple be that long in a sexless relationship but its true! I'm a virgin but I dont want to be anymore. My boyfriend has told me that he does get h**** but that our first time is totally up to me and no he does not make me feel bad about being a virgin. I just... I feel like I'm ready and even if we dont end up getting married and what not hes a good guy and I feel comfortable with him in that way. I'm confused. I don't know if i should..... or maybe I should just keep having our make out sessions. The only reason I'm confused about having s** is because we both have big dreams and we are getting ready to go to college and so a baby wouldnt really fit that picture. I know about protection and all that but you never know.