Feel guilty for fantasizing about my best friend
I am a 19 year old girl and my best friend is a guy the same age. We are very close and spend a lot of time together, and I have always found him attractive. After we had a conversation about ** a couple of weeks ago, I have been fantasizing about sleeping with him non stop! I feel so guilty because he is like a brother to me, and I feel like I shouldn't think of him in that way, but I can't stop imagining having ** with him. After that conversation, I feel like we would have awesome **, plus we have chemistry. But he's my friend, so I won't try and act on it.
Why don't you just start dating him? If there is any attraction or chemistry, that's only normal to feel that way when you are around someone you are attracted to. Just tell him you have feelings for him but you don't have to admit they are sexual.you can ask your friend what he thinks and if you two should start dating. Also,don't rush into things because you don't want ** ruining any kind of relationship that is brand new. He will get the wrong impression that you are easy peasy. It's up to you but I'd give it a go if he doesn't already have a girlfriend.
Honey, you need to ** that boy. I guarantee you, totally and absolutely, if you give him a clear opportunity, He will do it.
You are friends, not brother and sister. Get a little tipsy with him and then tell him you think he is hot. Then see what he says. He may be feeling the same way about you!
Me and my neighbor have been like brother and sister, we both have had issues with addiction to self injury so we were always there for each other and we love each other; last year we dated for a week but we are polar opposites and it just "didn't feel right" well we are still friends but I almost never see her anymore. Even when I tell her I really want to cut myself and could really use a hug at some point over the weekend, she never seems to have 5 minutes to see me. She was my only friend, now I have none.