i am 14 and am goin out with a 35 year

i am 14 and am goin out with a 35 year old man

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  • I have a feeling that this is the 35 year old pedo who always posts on here!

  • Don't listen to all these narrow minded people who think your relationship is sick or wrong. I was in your shoes when I was 15-I fell in love with a 40 year old man. Everybody told me it was wrong, but for me & for him it couldn't have been more right. He was a sweet, loving, caring man who always treated me like a princess. He was my first love & I will never forget him. I've loved several men since then (I'm 34 now) but no one else has ever made me feel like he did. I learned a lot about life & love from him-things that color my life to this day. I think that breaking up with him was one of my biggest mistakes; & if I had the chance to be with him again I would do it in a heartbeat.
    As long as you both are honest with each other and he treats you right; you have no reason not to be with this man. What matters is not what other people think or feel-it's all about what you & your man feel. If he loves you, & you love him, go for it girl! I wish you happiness & good luck...

    ^^^^^^^^^PEDOPHILIAC RELATIONSHIPS NEVER LAST, BECAUSE WHEN YOU GET TOO OLD, THEY STILL WANT TO BE WITH A CHILD! DUMB B****! If you want to end up as f***** up as this lady, keep on doing it.

  • No, you are not "going out". He is a pedophile idiot!

  • I am fourteen and I think that man is a major pedifile and you are a freak for going out with him. He could be your dad! Dump him fast or find some help. He is a sicko.

  • this is illeagal, not to mention WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS

  • Not only is it sick but more importantly it's illegal. No grown man should look at a 14 year old that way but if it was legal then it would be a matter of opinion. BUT IT'S NOT LEGAL. He could go to jail for messing you so if you cared anything about each other the way you say he would wait until you were of age and you wouldn't do anything with him to preserve his freedom. None of these idiots on here telling that's it's ok will be there for you when he gets locked up and put away for statutory rape and sexual misconduct with a minor. They are not going to comfort you when your familys name is being drug through the mud in a public s** trial, when your boyfriend is being talked about and trashed by the media. Where will they be then? All those people who said go ahead and be with him knowing good and well what could happen if you get caught. And I know you are going to get caught because you can't keep your mouth shut. After all you are on here telling us. And even though this is an anonymous site the fact is you shouldn't be telling anybody. So see it's not that you love him or he loves you it's whats best for you. If you feel he's best for you then wait until you are 17 and then you can be with him all you want. You may not understand it now but people will tell you all kinds of bs and have you getting in trouble and then be the first one talking about your boyfriend when he is in the news.

    Look you are young and still have a lot to learn. I'm not saying you don't love this guy, maybe you do, and maybe he loves you but be smart about this. This is an adult situation you are in and you need to be smart about this so that you can enjoy him when the time is right.

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  • Don't listen to all these narrow minded people who think your relationship is sick or wrong. I was in your shoes when I was 15-I fell in love with a 40 year old man. Everybody told me it was wrong, but for me & for him it couldn't have been more right. He was a sweet, loving, caring man who always treated me like a princess. He was my first love & I will never forget him. I've loved several men since then (I'm 34 now) but no one else has ever made me feel like he did. I learned a lot about life & love from him-things that color my life to this day. I think that breaking up with him was one of my biggest mistakes; & if I had the chance to be with him again I would do it in a heartbeat.
    As long as you both are honest with each other and he treats you right; you have no reason not to be with this man. What matters is not what other people think or feel-it's all about what you & your man feel. If he loves you, & you love him, go for it girl! I wish you happiness & good luck...

  • It's interesting 60 -80 years ago (one lifetime) this wasn't uncommon my grandma was married to a 30yearold when she was 14. Their marriage lasted 6 decades, till he passed. my question are we as a country more moral today than 60 years ago?

  • You need to realize that older guys who chose to f*** little girls like yourself are just using you! What could he possibly have in common with you? You need to have a little respect for yourself and not see him anymore. There's a reason why they put guys like that in jail, because they're f***** in the head!

    Joni

  • If that guy knows you're 14 then he needs to get his ass f*****' beat all kinds of sideways and then thrown in jail. I'll be happy to do the ass beating. I'll even pay for the honor. Add up the adjectives above - sick, freak, loser, repulsive, f*****-up. They're all correct.

  • Guaranteed he only wants to f*** you. And he must be a f*** up himself who can't get a woman who is older than a minor. There's something wrong with guys of this age who date girls that young- like they aren't capable of relating to women who are grown-up. Someone his own age would probably see him for what he is- a loser!

  • ILL, IM TELLING UR MOTHER AND THE POLICE

  • Fist of all it's not ok. It's against the law and if you keep talking about it you will get him locked up. But my question to you is did you tell him you are 14. He should be able to tell even if you don't look 14 but some people use that as an excuse. Because if you are telling him that you are 21 or something like that and you have the body to pass for 21 then you are the one who's discusting.

    But if that's not the case and he knows you are 14 then he's a sick freak and you should leave him alone. And if he was really serious about you he'd wait until you were of legal age.

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  • ^^ Dude f*** you. And to the OP, it's okay, as long as he isn't taking advantage of you. Just be careful.

  • not only is that repulsive that he would even be attracted to a 14 year old girl, it's highly illegal. you cannot legally consent to anything until your'e 17. i'd drop that pedaphile now if i were you.

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