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So about a month ago I was hanging out
So about a month ago I was hanging out with my buddy. I'm openly gay and he is straight. Well we were drinking and he put my hand on his **. It went on from there and after, we were talking and he said he was just curious about things. Fine by me! Haha.
The complication is that he has a girlfriend and if it had been only that one time, I'd chalk it up to drunken stupidity. Well, the other night it happened again and we went much further than ** which is what it was last time. I asked him about his girlfriend and he said he could never tell her and that it wouldn't be the last time. He is a hottie too and I really enjoy the time but I feel bad about the girlfriend.
I dunno..it's fun but it kinda ** too. Not really sure what to do or what not to do.
write to an advice column. this site is for confessions
^ Amen
There is no reason to at least treat this as any heterosexual cheating. You should not play a part in it. The multitude of homosexual issues add complexity, but don't forget the basic facts.
Stop messing around with him until he matures and doesn't depend on you as his 'safe gay **' crutch. He needs to think about his sexuality. The news might break his current hetro relationship, but its unfair and generally **-ish for him to depend on you to keep his bisexual secret. If things so sour, he'll probably try to blame you, and not his love of **.