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I'm leaving for basic training pretty
I'm leaving for basic training pretty soon and I'm super scared I'm going to lose my boyfriend. I'm almost positive its going to happen. But I love this country and I feel the need to defend it. Its what I want to do. ..A life dream if you will. We fight about it quite often now. He says "If you really love me, you wouldn't leave me behind like that." I think if HE really loves me, like he says he does, he'll be there when I get back and support me 100% while I'm gone because its something I am and always have been passionate about.. Its not like he didn't know I was going to join. I told him I was going to when we first got together. He said it wasn't a big deal. Am I wrong for going? Oh well either way I have to go, its too late. I already signed a contract. Its basic or prison.
he wont be there when you come back. he will probably be sleeping with your best friend by then.
A need to defend your country by fighting them over there in their own country after the war was started on false information. That is just wrong.
But, I have a uncle who was pushed with the prison threat and took it as a way out. So serve your sentence in a cage, or somewhere where they want to put a bullet in you. That or being shredded by the nuts and bolts that was placed in a road-side bomb.
I don't ever want to be in your position but I'd think you'd drop your worries about a boyfriend. If you two had solid plans to marry would be different. Who knows who you'll meet on the other side of the planet.
I hope you survive regardless.
Best of luck!