I can't help but hate her
Even if she claims that I'm her best friend, I can't help but hate her a little. She does as she wants without consulting me, thinking that I'm just going to go along with anything she wants. She often makes it seem as though she's the victim whenever something happens, making me an outcast from my normal group of friends. Now, I don't even know how to interact with my normal group of friends without her around, because everything is awkward and all their conversations to me are centered around her and her well-being. It's like I suddenly don't exist!
What really irritates me is that I don't know how to proceed on with my social life anymore. If I tell her straight up that I'm annoyed by her ways, she's going to make a scene and drag all my other friends in with her. But if I don't confront her on her ways, I feel like I'm going to be stuck in an endless circle of torture because of her. I don't know what to do.