I need a freak in the bedroom
There are two main things that really turn me on as a young woman: being sexually controlled, and knowing that I'm giving pleasure to my partner. Being choked, seductively bitten, scratched, held down, doggystyle... anything primal and animal in nature. This, coupled with the knowledge that I'm fulfilling a man's sexual desires and pleasuring him, is the absolute icing on the cake.
I also love the idea of giving b******* and swallowing, purely from the thought of giving pleasure as I mentioned above.
I think of it like this: in terms of physical gifts, I may not be able to buy my future partner an expensive car or house. I can, however, give him my body and my attention (which I would only do if I knew he'd love and appreciate the gift I was giving him).
Can a man be both sexually aggressive and a loving nurturer? Or are they mutually exclusive traits? I hope not...
The old maxim 'Treat her like a queen, f**k her like a s***' comes to mind.