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Having ** ** tendencies while my partner doesn't.
I'm confessing that I'm really sexually frustrated.
4 years long relationship with my current partner and the ** stopped almost completely after the first 2 years.
I love this person, I've talked to them a thousand times about it but it feels like I'm talking to a wall.
My partner has problems with how they see their body and I've always respected that but everything was okay at the start I didn't mind it that much but now I can't wait anymore and I don't know what to do.
They are just not my type of person sexually.
I developed a really bad ** addiction of all that trying to fill the gaps but it doesn't work and it frustrates me.
I'm going to therapy right now but I just want to be submissive in a ** relationship and they are not like that. I know it's stupid to think about breaking up over ** but I don't know I've tried anything and often think about other people. How probably while I'm alone they are living their life and what could they give me if I just do it. I'll never cheat but I just want my partner to want me ,to desire me and it feels like we are roommates not partners.It **.
I feel your pain. Would your partner consider couples therapy for intimacy issues? Could your partner come with you to a therapy session and your therapist intervene saying that you love them deeply but it's seriously impacting your emotional state? Your therapist might offer to see your partner individually or recommend another counselor? I believe you should try every reasonable avenue possible but at some time, before life passes you by, you will have to come to terms with the fact that you deserve more. If you both were content, that would be one thing, but you are genuinely suffering. If you're partner isn't willing to meet you halfway, or any way at all well, sadly that kind of sums things up. You have more value than they are able to appreciate.
Yeah interesting isn't it. The guy isn't into kink, stop trying to make him something that he's not. If the roles were reversed and he wanted her to dress like a school girl you'd probably loose your **. You can't force him to do something he doesn't like. What if you hated things in your ** but he insisted? What would you do? Open up or dump him?