i love you and im scared that if i tell

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i kept it inside for a long time, & when i finally told him, he told me he felt the same way, we've been together for nine months & i couldn't have asked for anything more.

I was in a similar position recently and it was very painful to be so close to someone as a freind and to have feelings for them which I needed to hide. He was my housemate which made it all the more worse. I was never brave enough to tell him how I felt, but luckily he had feelings for me too and he took a massive risk in telling me. I am always grateful that he had the courage to do what I could not and we have a wonderful relationship now. I guess I was lucky - very lucky. I don't know how things will turn out for you, but I do know that if you love someone, you owe it to yourself to find out if your feelings are requited or not. Best of luck, whatever you decide to do.

Yep, I agree with the person above. Sometimes it's right to let the person know, even if they don't love you back. Good luck to you.

ive been there. i thought the world of the person, have never felt like that about anyone ever before. I just told them. I wont lie and say it worked out, it didn't but Im glad that i told him. We tried to stay friends after but i think he was looking for more "benefits" and i wasn't going to get hurt like that. We rarely talk now. But if i had never said anything I would still be wondering and not moving on.