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The worse part about ending my affair, is that im trapped again in my sexless marriage. I long to be touched by my lover again, i know we had to end it, but I miss the **!!
yet the thought of being intimate with my husband sickens me...its just been too long - too much resentment has built up. ** i dont want to be celibate the rest of my life!! Im 45....i have a few good years left!
Different here, my wife and I love each other but after my Prostate Cancer surgery I just cannot. She admitted her frustration although I do use a **, and both hands and oral, she says it is just not the same.
So, I told her to find a lover, enjoy life, it is not fair to her just because I am ill.
So, she has, several times now. I just ask that they be one night things, and she makes any guy use a condom.
But there is hope, I noticed when she is out I get glimmerings of a reaction and that seems to be improving so maybe we can get back to just us.
Just had my affair of 9 yrs end with a married man end 3 weeks ago, so I totally understand and empathize being in a similar situation myself (wife caught on).
I miss him terribly but I understand his marriage came first...I am just the jilted Mistress....off to lick my wounds!
U can get it easily, all u need is to ask someone.
My God, you act like there aren't any options and that you're trapped forever in this sexless marriage. Grow up...YOUR life is in YOUR hands. If you're as miserable as you say you are, do the right thing for everybody's sake and end the marriage. Since **, for a man, is a strong point of validation in a marriage and undoubtedly you haven't been sexual with your husband at all lately, then I'm confident that he's as miserable, lonely and unsatisfied as you are.
So STOP whining like a little girl, grow a set, and more importantly grow up, act like an adult woman and take control of the situation and get your ** life in order.