Best friend issues

Ok so me and my bestfriend have been friends since 2007. Through out the years we became really close. We went through a lot together. Breakups, phony friends, trips etc. pretty much we were there for each other no matter what. In fact I'd like to talk about something specifically. At the time when we met she had a girlfriend she been with for 4 yrs. To make a long story I short her girl cheated on her and left the state for another girl. It was the toughest thing for her and guess who was there for her?? Me of course. It hurt me to see her go thru that. She didn't deserve that. And I hated her "ex" for that. That break-up was in like 08 ish. Like I said we were cool and eventually she started dating again. In fact she was with this girl on and off for 2 years. Ok so the reason I'm writing this is because it is now 2013 and I believe that our friendship is fading but guess what her and her ex the one that cheated on her are back together. That's cool an all but now me and her barely talk its like me and her are not even besties anymore. Everything is all about the ex. I don't wanna sound selfish but we don't hang out like we use to, we barely talk on the phone. We just text briefly. I really don't understand. I don't even have a problem with the ex well her girl anymore if she's happy I'm happy for her. But it's like he moved on and we "broke up"

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  • Your friendship is just evolving. You may not see each other as much, but when you talk to her it should feel like no time has passed. You should definitely speak to her, she's your friend. If you don't speak up, she won't know and won't be able to fix what's wrong. She is caught up in her gf, this happens. And she may be for awhile or until they break up again. Tell her you're happy for her, but you miss hanging out and would still like to make plans to see and talk with her. It's about finding balance. The best thing you can do for yourself is to also find some other friends to surround yourself with.

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