Addicted to Cheating.

I've cheated on multiple boyfriends and I don't know how to stop. With my current boyfriend, I love him to death and would do anything to make him happy. I've cheated on him twice with the same guy, one of my exes. He knows, forgives me, and expects me to never do it again. I stopped talking to that ex and I know I won't even cheat with him again. But I have two temptations right now. One of them is my boyfriend's best friend, who is super attractive. Until now, I saw him as a j*** I could never really be interested in. But he's recently been much more kind and sensitive to me. I don't know what I would do if he tried to pull a move on me. I probably couldn't resist. The other guy is one of my good friends. We constantly flirt, and though he always says he's joking, I know he's saying it because I have a boyfriend. He's also very attractive and a really nice guy. If he ever tried anything, I know I'd go along with it. I don't know what gets into me when I cheat, I always feel guilty after, but I don't know how to stop myself from actually doing it.

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  • You're a nymphomaniac and there is nothing wrong with that and you seem to like a variety of different men ...let your boyfriends best friend f*** your brains out ...you know you want and need it ...make it happen ...what's to be will be ...happy f******.

  • You should tell your bf that you are unable to control yourself sexually, and that you are sorry, but you just can't. Ask him if he is open to swinging - finding other couples who you can both f*** (hard to find unless you are both really hot) or if he would be willing to share you with other guys (easy to find). If not, then the best thing would be to break up. sorry.

  • THINK ABOUT THIS YOU MAY GET A STD WOULDN'T TO GIVE THAT TO YOUR BOYFRIEND,,,SEE THE GUY YOU S**** THINK HOW MANY WOMEN HE S**** BEFOR YOU CAME ALONE ,,,,JUST THINK ,,,,OKAY IT MAY SAVE YOUR LIFE AND YOUR BOYFRIEND TOO...LIFE....

  • Obviously you have commitment issues, probably as result of some childhood psychological abuse, neglect or trauma. If you believe in our society's generally accepted moral norm -- that love is monogamous, and cheating is wrong -- as some of your post suggests, then you can't really "love [your current boyfriend] to death," and knowingly cheat or plan to cheat on him. If you truly love him, and are with him under the agreement that being BF/GF means sexual exclusivity, no outside sexual partners and no cheating; then you must make a serious commitment to him and only him (i.e. because you LOVE him and CARE for him and his FEELINGS). You should find a therapist who will help you construct some sort of social/professional support structure by which to effect permanent behavior change. This will likely take years, and honestly it would be unfair to expect your current boyfriend to put up with your cheating while you are getting yourself sorted out. Even if you do these things, success is only possible if you truly want/commit to the life-style change this would require and put real/earnest effort into making these changes real. If you can't or are unwilling to take these steps and make these changes, then out of the mutual respect (which I assume) you have for a fellow human being, you should tell your boyfriend of your problem, that it is indeed YOUR problem (he did nothing wrong), and break up with him.

    If you cannot modify your behavior to fit your morals, you must modify your morals to fit your behavior. That means staying single and promiscuous for the rest of your life (and being ok and content with this life), or finding someone who is willing to be in an "open relationship" with you as your habits seem to demand. Of course that likely means they will want the freedom to have s** with whoever they want too. Be sure to always use protection (even with your new equally-promiscuous boyfriend) and make sure you get tested regularly for VDs.

  • If u are going to cheat on him so be it. Doing it with his friend makes u a complete c***. If you are so addicted and open to cheating then find someone other than his friend. He'll likely need his friends after you s**** him over again.

  • Your just a whole. Case closed!!

  • Your just a w**** plain and simple. Case closed!!

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