I'm lost.

I am 14 yrs old & i have been feeling h**** for the last couple days, but since i'm baptist , (i believe in God) in the Bible it says "you should be married to have s**" so i don't want to do it, but yet, i still want to. Can someone give me advice & what to do?

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  • You need to to look up and read your bible it clearly says about your
    flesh -

    Galatians 5:19-21
    Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

    Matthew 5:28
    I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

  • You should do the following:
    1. log on to your favorite image-search site
    2. shut off any "safesearch" or "content filter" it has
    3. type "candydolls" in the search bar
    4. scroll down and start jerking off

  • Stop believing in the magical sky pixie upstairs and life becomes so much more fun!

  • Don't be told by anyone what to do or believe in this life. Use your own brain to make decisions, don't be held down by systems or laws put in place by someone else, it is most often to benefit themselves at your expense. Do what feels RIGHT, if you are happy that you are making the right decision and you are not harming anyone else unnecessarily then it is the correct decision. Never regret, the moment you do you've lost.

  • It is your life do what you want. Yes there is religion but god can forgive. Although others may judge, isn't god the only one who has a right to judge? He saved us all and forgives every sin we commit. I'm 14 just like you, and have been told the same thing. I was talking to my pastor and that is what he told me.

  • Im 25 year old male, im also baptist and I lost my virginity at 19 and have slept with 13 girls total. I got married in 2012 to the best woman I have ever met. She would not sleep with me until we were married. Yeah it sucked at the time but man was it worth it. I love her and trust her more for staying pure until marriage. I only wish I had, and it sucks not being able to give her the same thing. Pray and stay a virgin, but you can m********* all you want that will help

  • Humans are not supposed to be perfect. Mind you, it is something we should all strive to do. We are all sinners, if you like, and rules are there to be broken. If you have God given urges, then you should give into them within the context of not hurting others and in most cases where the law applies.

  • All I can say is. ONE LIFE. ONE CHANCE. good luck with your sad depraved religious life.

  • Um, I think you're misinterpreting the meaning of "S**". I don't think HE, even you follow the rules devoutly, was referring to what you do alone, in private. "Real s**" requires assistance of another consenting individual. From what you're describing, especially at your age, that's more along the lines of "bodily stress maintenance". Of course, I could be wrong...

  • Hey, I'm the same way. Idk it's just like an urge that you can't really control sometimes? Maybe just puberty? I'm 16 so.. But yeah I'm baptist too and just try praying to God

  • Religion is like an invisible line, I don't believe in it but some people do. Sometimes you have to think that you only have one life so live it well have some fun!

  • To me religion is like an invisible line I don't believe in it but some people do . Sometimes you have to think that you only live once and you have to live it well good luck

  • You could send me your address and I can teach you about the birds and the bees

  • Religion is nonsense, ignore it and live in the real world. Fine a girl or boy you like and have some fun!

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