My daughter told her boyfriend, her sister, and who knows who else I wasn't her real father. And I hate it. I've never told anyone she wasn't my real daughter because to me she is. I didn't have to adopt her but I wanted her to be mine. I wanted to be her real father and she's stolen that from me. How would she feel if I said "This is my daughter Jane Doe, and my stepdaughter Janet."? I don't know if I can ever forgive her.