How to calm down ** **
How do I calm my boyfriend down to vanilla **? I love him so much but he's too much for me now. We have been together almost 3 years and have sexually experimented alot over the years and now he wont calm down. ** is ruined for me. Its now a chore I dread doing and its ruining our relationship.
He can no longer enjoy ** unless I strangle him saying very cruel things or let him tear my ** with a toy or his **. I have to pretend he's someone else and call out a different name.
I really want to stay with him but how can we when every night I dread bedtime?
You need to make friends with a bigger more dominant man that will do to your boyfriend everything that he likes to do to you. I promise you he wont be so rough with you after your man friend forces him to ** his big hard ** a few times. He will stop wanting to ** your ** after he has been ** a time or two and his ** is raw and swelling . Your boyfriend is only thinking of his pleasure and not how it feels to you every time he pounds your poor little ** but that will all change when you have a bigger stronger dominant man use him like he does you . If he doesnt changing how he treats you immediatly he will right after he is forced to ** another mans ** in front of his friends .
Tell him to get a lover she will take some pressure off you and if you ** him each morning it should calm him
** him off at night too .swallow his ** .and he wont want to kiss you
I'm sorry but this will never work. I can completely agree with the first commenter's advice in many situations however I think this one is too far gone. This man will never be satisfied with regular ** and you will be battling this topic for as long as you are with him.
Honestly, leave him and find a more suitable partner before yet another wonderful year of your life is compromised!
Well, the first thing you need to do is talk to him. Don't do this right before or after ** or when he's distracted. Do it when you both have time to sit down and have a real conversation. Use a lot of "I" statements, "I" feel this or "I" want that... this will help prevent him from getting defensive. It may come as a shock to him that you're dissatisfied with your ** life. Be prepared to hear him out and make compromises, it's not like you want to stop completely, just take it down a notch. Have a little soft and sweet to go with the hard and nasty. Remember, you have as much right to enjoy ** as he does.
Thank you ??