My friend was just ** and I can feel

I was ** last summer and i didn't tell anyone till i found out one of my sisters was pregent by him,even then i had to write it in a blog. Telling is so hard, i didn't want anyone to know...i wanted it to go away..You shouldn't be mad at your friend...you should love her and be there for her and be proud she told at all. If my friends did that instead of accusing me and turning their backs i would be a lot better now..

Going to the police can be a hard thing to do. Often the victim feels that she somehow is at fault. There's still a lingering stigma about being sexually violated. She should get in touch with a crisis or support center right away and talk to someone.