I have never orgasmed. I do not find

So, I was almost eleven when while my mom was next door talking to our neighbor, I got nosey and looked around my mom's room. I had recently started touching myself and had heard about adult toys from my friends during our sleepover.
I found my mom's vibe toy in a shoe box in her walk-in closet. I had a sort of very mixed reaction, something like "Eeew" and arousal. I turned it on and it buzzed.
I was scared to get caught but I still took the chance.
I opened my jeans and lowered them enough to slip the toy against my ** over my undies. I pressed it against myself and it quickly stimulated me to a quick org in like a minute. I quickly put it back went to my room.
As I sat on my bed, I felt ashamed of what I had done. I could not make eye contact with my mom when she got back. It made me feel weird to know that she did it too.
A few days later, my mom went shopping and I made up some sorry excuse not to go with her. As soon as she was gone I went to her room and did it again. I used her toy every time that I could without getting caught. It became the only way that I could give myself an org. :(

Keep trying, practice different ways, use toys etc

I have a friend who was frustrated she had never had an **. I would ** her until my ** was raw, and lick her ** for hours, trying to satisfy her. Then a light went on, and I got some lube, fingered, lubed and stretched her **, and we did **. We found she had great ** after **. So after that, our ** life was oral **, and **. If you haven't tried it, it's worth the effort. It got to the point it was as easy to enter her ** as her **.

I love doing that to my man too. . .but only cause I know the favor will be returned.

Many women have trouble reaching climax, but the key is to find what you like. You need to find your spot, and find what dgree of pressure and speed is best for you. I can ** fairly easy, and quickly (if I hit the right spots). I found them by exploring myself. Also, foreplay is very important. You have to build up your anticipation for the big show!

I agree with the second poster about how comfortable you are with your own body and if you even know your own needs. Do you like clitoral stimulation or vaginal. If you don't know how to ** yourself, how is he supposed to know what buttons to push?

Regarding the oral **, does he return the favor? You get a sense of fufillment by helping him but sometimes you have to be selfish in bed. Worry about getting yourself off before him. Otherwise it sometimes means end of ** because he's 'done'. But thats okay sometimes. You just have to finish off by yourself. It happens the other way too. Just say you are done, but help him ** if you have the energy.

In the end, you may need a sexual therapist. (Not the ** kind)

Do anything that will make you **. Call an innocent guy (not your current bf) to home and make him feewl you are hot and **.. Show cleavage.. transparent or shart dresses.... Notice his responses... try to sit with close and mke him uncomforable. He shouldnt feel that you are doing voluntarily. Do night study with him and act as if you have slept.. pose your ** while sleeping... let him slowly enjoy you... then reply me..

Sweety, I tell you, I'd die to give you an **.... I trust it's not really him.... How comfortable are U with your own body??? If U are able to feel free, and RELAX, you can **... Just know its every woman's GOD given right to **. You can do it, even if you have to ** during **.... you can do it....

Sorry to hear it, maybe you haven't hooked up with the right guy yet?