I'm a 16 year old girl and have

I'm a 16 year old girl and have recently come to terms with the fact that I am a lesbian. The problem is that I have no one to date because there are only 500 kids in my school and it sucks. I have had a girlfriend, but she turned out to be straight and cheated on me with a guy. It broke my heart. Girls will try to hook up with me but it is only because they are curious, and even though it's fun I really wish I had someone to just be with. Boys have pursued me, and I finally gave into one and it just got so messed up. Now he has a new girlfriend and I'm actually jealous because I just want that so badly. I feel so lonely sometimes because no one believes that I am gay. They say that I can't be gay because I wear makeup and dresses and I'm just pathetic. It's so ridiculous. At least my parents are supportive and understanding.... I am so grateful for that.

If there are any gay teens out there, know that you are not alone in feeling, well, alone. I guess we all just have to wait until college.

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  • Highschool is not forever, and you have lots of time to find a relationship, and all that. You will see that when you are grown, a relationship is not all that it is cracked up to be anyways!

  • Yup.

    Well, hang in there, sweetie. High schoolers are so immature anyway. If you want to talk to other gay teens, there's always this great community: www.mogenic.com


  • I'm in the same boat. 16 and bi. it sucks when you cant get a relationship and everyone uses you to test their sexuality. i mean yes it IS fun but i know what you mean.

  • I'm sorry sweetie, go to a liberal college when your done with school you'll definatley find a girl there, only 1% of HIgh School romances last anyways. Also work somewhere as a waitress where there are a lot of girls maybe you'll meet someone you can relate to.

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