A few days ago, we had s**. I didn't

A few days ago, we had s**.

I didn't wear a condom, as usual, but She's been on the pill since about a month after we started seeing each other last October. Every now and then, I still get scared that She'll become pregnant despite the fact that She always takes Her pill on time. A few nights ago, I was scared that way, but I ignored it. We had s** and I finished up inside Her anyway. Now I'm scared.

I told Her about my fears, and She suggested that we not have s** until She gets Her period, which should be in about 3 or 4 days now, for my peace of mind.

Should I be scared, or is basing this kind of nerve-wracking fear on a niggling doubt just absurd? Any feedback is appreciated.

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  • As for the condom issue, wear one if you're that worried.
    As long as you can TRUST her to actually take the pill.
    Some woment SAY they are on it but are actually trying to get pregnant in secret.

  • OP:
    For the most recent commenter, i'm 19 and have no interest in a vasectomy anytime soon, and She takes the pill right next to me in the car on the way home from work every night. I KNOW she's on it.

  • As long as you can TRUST her to actually take the pill. Some women SAY they are on it but are actually trying to get pregnant in secret.

    I think a vasectomy would be the safest thing, unless you really trust her 100%.

  • NO condems....it totally ruins the sensations......condems are the worst thing for protection....it protects you from feeling the genuiine sensations of a really wet p**** and only makes it more difficult for the male to C**...

  • If you're that worried, wear a condom too for extra protection.

  • My wife and I used the pill method for 15 years. She missed a few pills here and there, and it didn't matter. She never got pregnant. In fact, it messed her up so bad, after she came off it to GET pregnant, we couldn't. Dude,,, the pill WORKS....period... I swear by it. Relax, and enjoy your girlfriend. You'll not be a daddy til you want to if she's on the pill....:))

  • No it's not absurd to have that kind of nerve-wracking fear on a niggling as you call it. Sometimes we need to listen to that little voice in our heads that tell us to do something. Plus nothing is 100% guaranteed to prevent pregnantcy except not having s**. And that's not going to happen is it.

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