My husband's ED is so hard (no pun intended)

My husband is 47 and has Erectile Dysfunction. I have been patient for months but he doesn't take his medication the way he is supposed to, and I have begged him to. He gets me off (oral) and then tries to fu-- me but it only leads to disappointment every time. I love him and I would not cheat so I end up masturbating when he is asleep. I do anything and everything in bed to please him- EVERYTHING- but this is killing my confidence. I know it's a medical condition but I keep thinking it would be different if I were 20 again. Can anyone offer any suggestions/ advice/ etc?

Feb 27, 2015

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