I feel sad. Everytime I want a girl, I

I feel sad. Everytime I want a girl, I can't tell them because I'm always "just a friend" etc. and when I do, they always want older men. Somtimes I just feel invisable to people. I have had girlfriends before, but they either did it as a joke, or they became crazy and would never leave me alone. I'm not a horrible partner, I roll the red carpet for them. I have never even broken up with a girl, I hate being alone. and I hate being a second thought. What am I doing wrong?

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  • I think you need to improve on;
    your self-worth,confidence and self-love :) Women are attracted to a man,whose confident.You have the chivalry and gentlemen vibe going on,already.So the rest is upto you.
    Play hard to get,a little :)

  • Get a q****

  • Why would someone date you "as a joke?"

  • Girls like guys that are not going to bow down to them like some puppy dog. Grow a back bone, and make them hoes earn that respect from you. Also, if you are having trouble finding a girl your own age, date one a few years younger!

  • Have faith that if you stay true to who you are that you will find the person that was ment for you.

  • Not really. You said it all, you roll the read carpet out for them. Stop that. Doing that makes you a joke. Make them earn the red carpet. Or just never give it to them at all. Then they'll be mad for you.

  • That's a hard question to answer. I too have often been the "nice guy" who finished last. I guess the thing to do in the meantime, until that "right" one comes along, is don't let the others walk all over you too much. Because they will if you let them. If it doesn't feel right, move on. As for being alone, that part does suck the most. Just try and be strong.

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