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After he got married
My brother and i used to be very close. He is 13 years older than me . After he got married and have children, he changed a lot, like very much. Nowadays, everything my sisters and i did seems wrong in his eyes.He becomes sort of judge mental.And all he cares are his wife n in laws . He treats his sisters in law much better than us . My parents noticed it too but i dont know, maybe the fact that he is a doctor (my parents were the one that asked him to be) ,cover all of his behaviors.
Well you are making a lot of assumptions about your brother. Without asking him directly, you just don't know the true reasons. Of course, it's true that people and relationships do change, even family members. He does have his own family to take care of and his job could be demanding, but that shouldn't be an excuse to not see his family from time to time. If you want to have a closer relationship to your brother, you may have to put some effort into it. Call him up and plan to do something soon..and don't get discouraged if he says he's busy. Let him know that the relationship is important to you and that you miss hanging out with him. At least it's a start again..