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I am his mistress. How strong can I be
I am his mistress. How strong can I be living as the other woman? Why do men need to have a woman on the side? I know he say's she is the worst how can I trust him?
Not always true I am a married guy witha lady on the the side we started as friends but it grew she knew i was married and we just enjoy each other when we can I tried to end it and encouraged her to find someone but she just wants her freedom and can be gone no strings attached she also does not see anyone but me only thing she ask is that it is just me,her and my wife in the equation. I was not looking for this to happen but I am not making excuses either but it is alot easier getting involved than getting out of situation due to some feelings involved not love but general feelings and when you have ** that changes the whole thing with feelings cause the the feelings get different.
Given the oppertunity, and the belief that he will not be caught, your husband will cheat on you.
Statistically, odds are he has.
I totally get where poster is coming from, but she knew the deal when she started to get with the guy, so she'll have to deal with the fact that in the real world, she's never going to come first, she'll always be the back up plan just incase the marriage goes wrong.
And as for **, it's easy to presume you'd never do that to someone's wife by getting with their husband. But imagine the feelings you have for your man, and then imagine feeling those feeling for someone who's already in a relationship. It's not as black and white when you feel like that, and unfortunately you hold on to any hope that one day, that person that you love will someday be yours.
In an ideal world, women in poster's position would be able to switch of the feelings they feel as soon as they discover that the person they care for is already in a relationship. However, this is, in my experience, not the case.
I believe that the blame lies with the cheating husband; he already has someone to come home to, but insists on being self indulgent enough to have his cake and eat another slice. He is also dragging his mistress along by her heart strings. Which is a really inconsiderate thing to do to someone who cares.
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Who is off their Prozac? ** boy?
^Hey, I didn't post that **! ** off!
Ha! At least someone agrees with me!
I'm not sure I got it yet...do you think someone is a **?
I know your name is not **, **, but because you first used it it is now your name on this thread and anonymous is so impersonal especially when I have you over my knee with your ** down as I spank you and make you bark like a dog. You'd like that wouldn't you, **?
^I am not trying to change the wordl, I would just like the freedom to express my opinions without everyone jumping on me because of it. This woman is a ** for sleeping with a married man, that is all. The other guy posting is trying to advocate adultery. His advice was to continue to sleep with the guy. Hello people????? I shouldn't be attacked because I think it is wrong (and slutty) to sleep with married men. ** all of you degenerates.
i think that guy is right. your not gonna change the world. lighten up a little
^Oh, and my name is not **, I was calling that guy a **. . .my name is anonymous!
Ummmm Okay ^ I did not post that.
But thank you, I know I am right.
^LOL I don't know about that!! I am a married woman!
So...nothing is going on in your head, huh? Despite what therapy-boy-in-training is spinning you are right, **.
Though another trip across my knee is in order.