So i dated this guy for a few years

So i dated this guy for a few years.
We were pretty young at the time, but we were head over heels in love. Things went bad after a while though, and we broke up. He can be stubborn, mean and sometimes stupid. However, he's really inspirational and fun and I love that. It's one of those love-hate relationships.

The thing is, it's been three years since we broke up (we're still friends) and i still think about him all the time. I think i still love him. I'm 20 and starting to worry about finding someone else/better. Do you think there's only one person that we're each supposed to find? Should I go back to him? Or is there still someone else out there for me?

I know I sound sentimental and romantic and pretty unrealistic but this has been bothering me for a while, and it would be nice to get some outside perspective. Thanks for reading.

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  • ummm... is this serious?

    i dated the guy for 3 years, so i'd have to say... yeah. i put out.

  • see what happens if you put out

  • Yeah, I'm pretty sure he still has feelings for me.

    That's pretty good advice though. I kinda know deep down that I should wait and see where my life takes me, I just needed to hear someone else say it because I've been attached to him for so long. Thanks.

  • I say wait and don't get back with him. If it really turns out to be this guy then things will work out. But you are only 20 years old and your life is just beginning. I'm not saying go sleep with a bunch of guys. But you never know what directions your lives may take you, or who you may meet down the line. My advice is to stay good friends with this guy for now. Keep in touch and try to focus on your career path or whatever it is you want to do in life and then in a couple of years or so if the feeling is still there then explore it. Plus have you found out if this guy still likes you?

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