Why do I feel this way?
My twin brother is gay and I can't get my head around it - but not because I'm homophobic at all (I'm pansexual myself and if it were a choice between a man and a woman in bed I'd take the man). I just never anticipated it i had always thought he was straight and I have an excellent gaydar (I predicted 7/8 non-straight people who have came out at school and they're all really close friends too). Why can I not get my head around his homosexuality? Surely just because I never expected it wouldn't make me feel so weird about it.