What is love ?

I have never ever felt anything that could be called love and I really don't understand it. maybe because I'm too young (16 year old boy) but I've heard people claiming to be in love at a young age. I've looked it up before and found a few quotes saying it's accepting someone with all their failures and mistakes and i was like nope that never happens before. It kinda made me think that i'm incapable of feeling that emotion. Maybe because i'm an indoors person (I never go out and i go to an all boys school) but I'm still a human right?

(I do know l*** however. like I watch p*** and feel attracted for a few moments but after I c** it's all over.)

One last request: could someone describe the feeling of being in love to me I'd really appreciate it.

Anyway that's it, much "love" to you all.

anonymous

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  • Simply, love is that strong feeling of been jealous when that person whom you "love" is with another person. Period!

  • I wouldn't worry if I were you. I bet it just has to do with the fact that you're only 16 and go to an all boys school. Do you even meet very many girls? I don't remember exactly but I don't know if I had ever felt like I had loved someone at the age of 16. I had crushes sure, but not love yet. Chances are you just haven't found a person you feel that strongly for yet and you shouldn't even feel like you are behind other people your age. Because most of what teenagers describe as love is infatuation or not really as deep as actual mature love. Which is why you see teenagers break up with their gf/bf and have a new one a week later.

  • Actually this gonna sound kinda weird hehe I have NEVER met a single girl (in real life face to face before) so i guess you're right.

  • Every person experiences love differently - there is no real "standard" for what love is or isn't supposed to be. Some people can't love, some people seem to fall in love with everything they touch. Honestly, I can't tell you which is worse. Don't worry about what you are "supposed" to feel, because worrying won't make you feel it. In fact, nothing will. Just feel whatever you can, and be greatful for it - every day above ground is a good day!

  • Also, to answer your question, the way I would describe love, at least the love I feel for my wife is - it's like when I'm around her, I am more myself than I am anywhere else in my life. Also, there is nothing I wouldn't tell her, or do for her. Also, I am totally attracted to her in this visceral way that makes me want to bang the s*** out of her everytime she bends over. So love isn't one thing, it's like a bunch of things wrapped together. What it sounds like to me is that you just haven't fallen in love yet because you haven't met anyone who fits you yet. You'll know it when you feel it.

  • You might be asexual, or just too young. Idk

  • You sound like you might be aromantic

  • Baby don't hurt me! Don't hurt me, no more!

  • Thank you Incest Queen.

  • Being in love with someone (romantically) means that you're willing to spend the rest of your life with him/her. You care for him/her and want the best for him. You want to spend the rest of your life making him happy.

    You are definitely capable of love. Christ loved us with an everlasting love and we are made in His image, we are capable of giving and receiving love. Don't worry if you don't think you're capable of love. You definitely are. You're still young, but you have a lot in store for you.

  • Ambrose Bierce said love was temporary insanity curable by marriage.

  • There are different kinds of Love. Platonic love, parental love, brotherly love. Unconditional Love. True love is on a mental/emotional level, and deeper than s**. You're young, trust me, you'll know it when you find it!

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