Dont have kids unless you want to hate your life.
Being a father and husband ** **. I have no life. All I do is work and sleep and wish I was somebody else. Im having more and more mood swings and my son is only 15 months. My wife irritates me. Shes a good woman but too self righteous. She grew up in a nice place and im from the bad side of town. Im bored as ** of her **. We never do anything fun. We have little to talk about. The baby is always annoying. And im trapped here until i fake my death, decide to be a ** and shun my responsibility by stepping out on my own, or end myself. Parenting and the joy of it is a god damned lie. Its modern day slavery at its finest. Marriage is joke. At any time my wife could ruin my life. Ill be forking over 70% of my paycheck, work non stop and live in a sewer cause i got married and had a kid.
Skip it folks. Get a dog. If yiu dont believe me have someone elses kid for a few days. That will set you straight.
Being a parent ** **.
Vasectomy!!!!
"Parenting and the joy of it is a god damned lie." This needs to be made into a billboard with big red letters and put up all over the country. Raising kids is one thing, but the child worship trend we've been seeing since the 1990s is completely off the rails.
Take responsibilities for your actions. Children don't choose to be born, that includes yourself. You chose to get married and start a family. What's done is done. If you're that unhappy about your life, divorce your wife and still have joint custody of your child. But remember this, parenthood isn't easy, it's not supposed to be. You're bringing a life into this world, that you're responsible for. People contemplating having children should always think ahead before having them. Because children aren't toys.
There's numerous relationship dynamics in today's culture, getting married and having children is only one of them. It's a choice, not mandatory.
I don't envy you. I'm childless and unmarried, but in a committed relationship. I love it!
Agreed. I don't feel sorry for miserable parents hiding behind a facade. We see you
Yup. Good advice. Sorry it didn't occur to you until after you ** out a worthless kid.