Ok, I'm 19 and a virgin. I'm not upset about it and I've made the choice to wait till I'm married, but the thing is I'm scared I won't find a good guy who is willing to wait for me. I know I shouldn't worry about it but I can't help it. I feel pathetic but everyone seems to have the idea today that if you don't hook up with a guy you'll never get married and that it’s not “normal”. It seems like that’s what all guys want in a relationship.