I can't tell my best friend
I finally am meeting him in person and spending 5 days with him. I told her I was going out of town, which I am, but I cant bring myself to tell her who it's with. She hates him and is convinced he'll become abusive and rape me, and that by not following her advice I'm not hearing her out. I'm in college now and feel like it's time I take a leap of faith. If I get injured because of it, so mote it be, but this is my decision to make. And I can't let guilt and pressure make all my decisions for me, or her.
I'm taking a stand and I refuse to feel bad about it. I love my best friend dearly and I know what she's saying, and I've listened. But that doesn't mean I must follow.